Wedding Dance Tips from a Dancer’s Perspective

By Western Roots Country Dancing – Bozeman, MT

Planning your big day? As seasoned dancers who’ve worked dozens (if not hundreds) of weddings, we’ve seen the good, the great, and the awkward-turned-hilarious. If you're dreaming of a magical wedding where the dance floor is alive with laughter, twirls, and sweet memories—you’re in the right place.

Weddings should be fun!

Here are our top tips to make sure your wedding dance moments go off without a hitch:

1. The Dress: Dance-Test It!

Your wedding dress might be stunning, but is it danceable? Here's what to look out for:

• Security: Can you spin, dip, and twirl without fear of a wardrobe malfunction? Strapless gowns can shift if not properly tailored. Test it with movement!

• Breathability: Those corset-style bodices can take your breath away—literally. If you’re gasping during a slow waltz, you’ll be exhausted by the time the two-step kicks in.

• Beading & Underarm Chafing: We’re not kidding—some gowns have embellishments that rub like sandpaper when you start moving. Ouch.

• Length & Freedom: Is the dress short enough to keep your feet free? If it’s long, does it bustle securely? Stepping on the dress is the most common dance issue we see at weddings.

• Practice: Before the big day, try dancing with your partner in a dress of similar length and shape. You’ll get a feel for what works—and what to avoid.
  

2. The Venue: Make Space for Joy

Before you book the perfect view or dreamy barn, ask: Is there room to dance?

• Dance Floor Size: Plan for 60–70% of your guests to hit the dance floor at some point. If you’re expecting 100 guests, your floor should comfortably fit at least 60 movers and shakers.

• Portable Dance Floors: Not all are created equal. Some are slick, some shift underfoot, and others just don't hold up. Test them out if possible.

• Level Ground: If you're outdoors, make sure the floor is set up on level ground. Sloped dance floors lead to tripped feet and toppled dips.

  
  

  

  
  
  
  

3. The DJ: Share Your Vision

Your DJ isn’t just there to press play—they’re the vibe curator of your night.

• Must-Play & Do-Not-Play Lists: Clear communication = fewer cringe moments and more dance floor magic.

• Your Vision: Share your tone, your story, your “vibe.” Whether you want honky-tonk, Top 40, or classic love songs—make sure your DJ knows the full picture.

• Creative Freedom: Let your DJ know where they can have fun and where you want to keep it locked in. A little freedom goes a long way for keeping the night flowing naturally.
  

4. Special Dances: Keep It Light

Whether it’s your first dance or a sweet moment with Dad or Mom, don’t overthink it.

• Skip the Choreography (Unless You’re Pros): Unless you and your partner are confident dancers, ditch the pressure of strict routines. Focus on connection, not perfection.

• High-Impact Moves: Learn a couple of "wow" moves—like a sweet dip or spin—that photograph beautifully and give the moment a little flair.

• Cut the Song: You do not have to dance the full 3:57 of a slow ballad. 60–90 seconds is plenty to create a special moment without the awkward "how do we wrap this up?" ending.
  

Your wedding is about love, laughter, and shared moments—especially on the dance floor. If you want to feel confident, have fun, and bring your guests along for the ride, a little preparation can make a huge difference.

And hey, if you’re in Bozeman and want to brush up on your moves or learn a memorable first dance—we’ve got your back. Let’s dance!

Learn more about our wedding: https://www.mtcountrydance.com/weddings